Showing posts with label Basics. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Basics. Show all posts

Monday, June 4, 2012

Basics of a Muslim marriage


Muslim marriage is a sacred event that joins a woman to her husband. This is not only a sacred event but an event which is communal and witnessed by a crowd of people. A very religious Muslim marriage occurs according to the will of Allah. A Muslim man is entitled to marry up to 4 wives and a woman knows her place in marriage. This is as a result of his years of study of the Qur'an. Muslim culture carefully prepares women and their marriages become a great success. These marriages are governed by their law, known as Sharia. It is within this institution that they solve their problems. This way of resolving problems has ensured that couples have success in marriage. A Muslim marriage is appreciated and the Internet will provide you with all the information you need to understand more about it. A spouse in this religion is a companion and a friend. A partner should provide comfort and protection to your loved one. Common problems that affect all marriages will also affect this type of marriage.

Many people enter into relationships with many hopes and expectations. The first years of marriage are wonderful, but as it moves to more phases of life, you will notice that it is not easy. It is therefore necessary to all Muslim couples to empower themselves with information that will go a long way to ensure that all is well. The following are some of the tips to help a Muslim couple to strengthen your marriage and lead to a higher altitude. In Islam, a man is seen as more of one pastor to lead the family. Contrary to popular belief, this marriage is not based on the dictatorship and is an association. A husband has the role of nurture and consulted his wife in matters relating to the family. This must be done in a peaceful manner, and if there is a problem, it should be resolved in tranquility and humility.

An Islamic marriage will be strengthened by spending time together. It is laugh together and enjoying the small things in life together. This is what true marital bliss. Drawing closer together is an obligation, and this can only work for the improvement of the marriage relationship. The objective is to find peace and a place of rest in each of the others. When it comes to issues of sex, an Islamic couple need to put time and effort in it. There are things that are acceptable 'halal' and others are prohibited 'haram'. Therefore, all partners in the right way needs must be met. Gender issues are considered private, and a couple should never discuss these issues with others. The Holy Prophet recommends women and sexually appealing and attractive men among themselves. Beautiful and elegant in Islam is very lively. This is a very useful suggestion to orient Islamic couples on these issues. Finally, a couple of Islamic needs closer to Allah in his marriage. It is a way of life, and is the decisive factor that appreciates every Muslim.




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Sunday, February 26, 2012

Islam's 5 Pillars - Back To Basics


Islams 5 pillars are all ingrained in the minds of every Muslims. So much so that we tend to take them lightly to the point of neglecting them. Today let us revise Islams 5 pillars and rediscover what our hearts should naturally incline to. I say should, because unfortunately our hearts are so covered up in disease that we have developed a hardness of the heart and our hearts no longer inclined to the basic things that they were created for. They incline to our desires more than anything. When they should incline to worship of Allah, The irresistible. We were created for that purpose alone and with Islams 5 pillars, taught to us by our beloved prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) we know exactly how. So let's go over them so that they may be implemented.

1. Shahada (testimony Of Faith): The first thing a person says that brings them in the fold of Islam. It consists of the following statement " I testify that there is no god (or deity worthy of worship) but Allah and I testify that Muhammad is his last and finally messenger." When you say these words, while meaning and understanding them, you become a Muslim. A Muslim is a person that "Submits to God's will".

2. Salat (Performing 5 daily prayers): A Muslim must perform 5 daily prayers at their prescribed times (On time). While in pray the worshiper is in direct link with his Lord (Allah). The performance of the prayer is mention in the Qur'an, but the details of how it is to be performed was given to us by the prophet Muhammad ( May the blessings and peace from Allah be upon him) Some people think that we could combine all the prayers for the end of the day, but that is incorrect. They must be performed at a set time which is determined by the position of the sun.

3. Zakat (Paying of the Alms tax): The Arabic meaning of the word Zakat is "purification" or "growth". Paying zakat to the needy serves the purpose of purifying our wealth and helping the poor. It has been set at 2.5% of the money set aside in a full year. Every Adult, free, and mentally sane and financially able Muslim, male or female, is obliged to pay his zakat every year.

4. Sawm (Fasting the month of Ramadan): Muslims have been advised that when the month of Ramadan arrives, they are to fast from sun up the sun down. Fasting means abstaining from food and water and from sexual intercourse during the prescribed hours mentioned. The reward for fasting is great and is only truly known by Allah. So we should not miss out that at all.

5. Hajj (Pilgrimage to Mecca, Saudi Arabia): It has also been prescribed by Allah, that we perform hajj at least once in our life time. On hajj, we are guests of Allah. A set number of rituals must be performed exactly in order for our pilgrimage to be accepted. If accepted, hajj completely washes you of all your sins and leaves you as sinless as a new-born baby.

Well here it is, Islams 5 pillars...

Make sure to implement them in your daily lives. Of course the explanation above was a brief one. For more info on Islams 5 pillars search Islam tomorrow on Google.




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