Image by loswl via FlickrGod has created nature and contents in pairs, thus creating a law attraction between one another. This means that these natural conditions will always be dynamic according to His will.It's the same with human life, will experience a rotation (rotation) between the below-to above, successful-unsuccessful; happy-sad, etc.. So also with our faith. Faith can come and go, rise and fall.
Ibn Mas'ud said, Surely the human soul that has a moment where he wanted to worship and there are times where the reluctance of worship. Between two states that human beings live this life. And between the two states was also determined the fate of human beings.
In another sense, the more someone is in a low faith, it is probable that in these conditions would end her life. And vice versa, if a person is more frequent in conditions of high faith, the greater the chances of obtaining a good end of life. The question is, how to realize the personal circumstances that led to the good, the person who never gave up?
Personal persistent (strong) is not another reference to the individual who does not feel weak against something that happened and happened to him. Personal thought something had happened in terms of rewards. He is convinced that scenarios that God will not miss one bit.
Never give up personal and this respite, none other than the person who has the ability to be grateful when he gets things related to happiness, success, medapat sustenance, etc..Conversely, if he found something unexpected, whether it be sadness, failure, received reinforcements disasters, etc.., Then he has the endurance to always be patient. And personal like this every incident that happened to her position is with the permission and the will of God.He resigned and was always trying to get up with a way to take lessons from each incident.
Personal adamant this is not just merely be seen physically. But the more and more important in fact the existence of a positive nature in his soul that was so tough and strong.
One becomes stronger, basically because of his mental strength. One becomes weak, because the mentally weak. Likewise, someone successful, because he has the desire to succeed. And one fails, because he did fail. In this case, there is a hadith of the Prophet, which states that: "The strong believer is more desirable and better than the weak believer. Thus, a strong human impact was tough, it should be our ideals in order to serve God. "
In this context, it may be mentioned that the success of the view that the Qur'an has two basic requirements. That faith and science (Qur'an 58: 11). Both of these, if we examine in detail, clearly has a huge influence in human life.
With strong faith in someone, then he will be very influential on the quality of human life.According to M. Ridwan Lubis IR (1985), there are three effects that belief, that is: the power of thought (quwatul idraak), physical strength (quwatul jismi), and strength of spirit (quwatur Ruuh).
Meanwhile, according to M. Yunan Nasution (1976), reveals the influence of faith against that form of human life: faith will diminish trust in the power of objects; instill the spirit of courage to face death; form a mental tranquility, and form a good life.
To achieve the effect of the power of faith, the key lies in each of us personally. And if we look at, actually the formation of a personal nature never gave up and tough it is originated from the nature of the optimism that surrounds the person's mindset.
Responding to the current circumstances, we should not be pessimistic and surrender. We must be optimistic and always strive to achieve excellence in life. So as to make unyielding personal and this respite, it must be embedded within us optimistic attitude, positive thinking, and confident.
Every human being must have optimism in this life. With optimistic attitude, we will tough measures to face any trial and face the future full of confidence in the Creator. Because the line of every human life has been determined to Him. Our job is to just try, to think and pray that in accordance with His blessings.
Once we are able to be optimistic, and our mindset should also be made accustomed to think positively and confidently. Positive Thinking to whom? First, think positive thoughts to God.Every event, the events and phenomena of life is certainly no cause musababnya. Our job, just thinking and reading. There is what's behind all this? Then, we draw lessons from the incident and then a good practice in everyday behavior.
Second, think positively about yourself. Every human being, born as a unique individual.Because however we face and the nature similar to the others. But, obviously there is only difference between them.
Unique and personal nature of it, should we wake. That is a positive potential, the authorized capital to achieve the flexibility we step into His blessings. How others will respect us, if you underestimate ourselves and not "lifted".
In addition, we also must make sure that we are born into this world as the champion, "the best.Facts prove, from the millions of sperm cells by spraying our father, but apparently that is able to penetrate the walls of our mothers and fertilized eggs, only one. That's us, "the champion".This, if we realize it would be an incredible motivation in this life.
Third, positive thinking on others. The other person, an ordinary human like us. He has faults and mistakes. That his conscience would not want it. Look, the man was from the positive side of it and accept the downside as a lesson for us.
Learn from a bird Garuda. He taught his son to fly from a great height and dropped. Last fall, lifted again and so on until he could fly his own. Garuda is also clean heart, not vengeful. When the time he played "claw-scratches". But, if he got on well beyond that, peace returned.
Fourth, positive thinking at the time. Each man was given the same time, wherever he is. A total of 24 hours per day or 86,400 seconds a day. At that time, we want to do with it? We used to sleep all day, working hard, complaining, berdemontrasi, gossip, relaxing, studying, helping others, daydreaming, worship, and others. It was not going to protest.
What is clear, every second of our lives will be held accountable someday answer, in the presence of Allah SWT. For those who used to occupy his time with the pious and charitable deeds-in faith, then he will obtain a better life. God says what means: "Whoever is doing good deeds, whether male or female in a state of believers, We shall turn on him with a good life and We balasi them with a better reward than what they have done. (Surat An-Nahl: 97).
To maximize the positive attitude in a person, the more so as a personal shaper unyielding, resilient, "resilient", patiently and istiqomah on his way. Sure need dibagun also with positive habits.
Hopefully, this paper became the material of our own assessment, particularly related to the desire of personal formation that never give up. And we pray, may God give us the ability to build strong personal and never give up as demanded by him. Amen. And Allaah knows best.
